Thursday, June 16, 2016

Respect her

Being born as a girl is the hardest thing on this earth. And it is more worse living as a girl in this dominant world.

Firstly, the bad door knocks when parents see them as a burden to their family when they were born. From the tieing ribbon to the tieing knot, every penny need to be saved for her. Some people still waits for the next born to be a boy instead of a girl.

Secondly, living around the males is another hell. Escaping from those pinching eyes, moving around them, handling a few fellows who follows, some rage out, some pour smiles, some hurts, some nasty things ahead...every move they make should be very cautious, after all they live in an unsecured world with an unsecured people.

Thirdly, a woman has got a freedom from the kitchen to the office walls. Now she is trying to reach equal heights with male. But how secure she is in working place? as the same unmatured and indecent people around with them.

Fourthly, after living 25 years with a secured family, she need to move to  in-laws house, she adjusts and reforms, for whom she is going to spend for the rest of her life. She pays her life for being a mother, a wife and a daughter-in-law. But how many husband's &  in-laws' understanding her?

Sometimes I felt, why we can't respect them like our family.