Tuesday, October 25, 2016

Is love fragile thing?

Is the love really fragile? This question pinched me in my mind.

Let's see some case studies on both sides.

Favours :
1. We often ignore the mistakes of our loved ones. Then it is not weak.
2. We do care more than ourselves, in turn loving them more than ourselves. So, it will never break easily.
3. Even we apart, we do think about them. So, it is never forgettable.

Against:
1. We will give them the love, but if they are not really worth, or not valuing our love. Then the relationship breaks.
2. How long the love stands if it is one-sided?

So the love is not fragile, if it is mutual. If not, it will not stand long. So,  value the others love, to keep the relations.

Sunday, October 23, 2016

Love will never die.

Inspired by Majnu movie...

I don't know wherever I go, I could find a reason to remember you. May be I still didn't forgot you.

I closed my eyes when you seeing me, as it is a sin.
I closed my heart when you near me, as it is already broken.

I was full dead when I can't own you. But I am finding you in every part of me. I am bearing your soul with my body.

These many days I am living like you, as you taught how to be.
These many people I have gained, as you taught what is love.

One fine day, you knocked me. I don't know, what I should do. Those old memories hit me bad.

As it is running, another story forming in my premises.

Some other one shared your memories, but she is bearing my soul in her body.

Now the you in me started loving me in some other one. I am seeing myself in new one, and the you in me trying to change her like you.

May be the love is getting passed through you to me and then to her. But in real, the bodies are their own bearing some other souls.

At last, the pain is shared among each other. And the real you is formed in all our souls to spread the love.

Love will never die...
My kadhal devathai.

Wednesday, August 3, 2016

There are no Mr. Perfects? and Miss Perfects?

I do mistakes and we often do mistakes in life, in work. But that doesn't mean we are not skilled and not a potential person.

I want to convey to two things here.

First thing is in life, we do mistakes because we don't know how to deal with the situation, some times it lead to the bad decision. And we learn something from those mistakes and we gain the experience. And if the same situation happens in his or others life, he can handle and guide them the way to the problem.

Second thing in work, we do not think more and often not find the way to come out of the problem in the program 's logic. It is the duty of the mentor to guide them and show the solution, but it should never be spoon feeding. The real thing is we need to kick start some thing, and in the way if we have the problems, we could seek the mentor' s help, but without the even try, one should not reach them, then you will never learn anything.

And the people in the higher level, should understand the fellows, there won't be Mr. Perfects or Miss. Perfects.

Saturday, July 16, 2016

Difference between my job and life

Topic -  Dont mix life and work
Inspired by -  Self

The profession test engineer is cumbersome job, of course, I fall into the same category. Our job is to find the bugs in an application. When one  want to convey the same, he/she should be careful in describing the missing gap against the requirement. As it should not never hurt them, after all it is a bug in the application designed by them, of course it happens, but it doesn't relate to inability (skill) of him. It is only misunderstanding of the requirements.

If this applies to the work life, the same should applies to the people around us too. One should not be finding defects in people. No one is perfect here. In personal life, people will follow their own beliefs and restricted to their own knowledge. And we are no-one to judge about their inability, as we don't know what they have gone through. It is always a good asset in one's in conveying without hurting them. This is the essential skill required in both the personal life and work life.

And we are the real risk finders and true speakerd, as we are the only in the team, who sees the negative side of the project or finds the risks ahead. And one should trust them instead of other teams.

Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Why God has doesn't have any form?

I remember the phrase "God is nowhere". It all depends, how one understands the meaning of the phrase, the way they read it.

It may be God is no where
Or God is now here.

So, if he is here now, how he should be?  Whether he should have any form, no he doesn't. Because, the God should be everywhere and omni present. He shouldnt not any form and he is expanded in the whole universe.

God is now-here.

Saturday, July 9, 2016

The spread of goodness

I have started my social service since 2009. The first good thing started by joining hands with the "Orangeleaf" NGO. I am amused that this NGO run by the group of small kids which are not yet turned their age of 20. We have a plan to meet at the some orphanage by next month, but my fate thrown me to the Chennai.

Later I joined in the iVolunteer NGO in Chennai in 2012. My first involvement started with the hemophilia patients. I have collected a fine amount of money from my colleagues to fulfill their wishes. I have seen a bunch of happiness in the eyes of mother when I handed the pair of shoes to her child.

Then my present company, Tagit helped to run my own library in office and which helped me to donate the collected amount to NGO's. And it provoked so many of my colleagues to donate heartfully.

But I want to share one thing happened in the last year. That was the Diwali day celebrations in my office. We of team of 12 members won a few of competitions and prized with sum of INR 2000. And one of my team member, Kiran suri suggested that we could use this money for some social service. By the time, I am not fully involved in the social services. But he made a point that "I am the inspiration to get this idea" . I felt happy that the goodness shared has spread and effected some other lives too. Fortunately, that is the amount I used to help my colleagues who stuck during Chennai flood. And it changed my fate too.

Thanks to the Kiran suri. And my Diwali competition team.

What is real?

Whatever you sees is not real?  I am telling about the human perception on understanding others.

Some people find interesting things or adore the external things, like men do attract the external beauty, some people attract to the money, but they should understand that these never stay long and these are not real attributes of human. So, the perception we are understanding about others is really bad.

And some others misunderstand the behavior of the people. Whatever we are, come as hereditary assets from our parents and the environment we  have grown. If some one doesn't know the table manners, it will never be his mistake, because he never do it. Instead, we can educate and can turn them to the mannered person instead of having a negative feeling on them.

So, what one should understand the person and analyse the person carefully or else the real thing in him will never to be seen.