Friday, September 6, 2013

"Unity in Diversty of Love........!!!"

After so many days of struggle, I came up with the some idea. But again it hits the love concept as previous.

Here we go. Let me share my idea and be ready for that.

India - Epics - Customs.

There are some set of principles encoded in the epics, the ability to think between the good and bad is the base line of the epic. And also includes the character of being a human. This is what my belief and so many of too. 

That is what the people of India follows. The principles passes from generation to generation.
May be people of my next generation was not much aware of much principles. But there are so many changes seen in the customs and principles of our people in my generation.
 
Here comes my idea.

Behind the principles, I am taking the concept of love.

Initially, lets take you to the "Dwapara Yuga", where the Lord Krishna put his mark for that yuga. There only it develops the concept of love(initial love, as per my understanding). May be every one aware of the love between the Radha and Krishna. I am not going deep into their love, I am taking only the last part. Finally, The LOVE has FAILED. May be, we should not say that Love has failed, the pair was not succeeded in it. The reasons are still unknown. May be there are some reasons like they are from different communities or his parents not accepted, leaving to your thoughts.

It was past. Then what's Now.

Along with the principles, they adapted the love from epics. But unfortunately, I have not seen the more successful stories, may be this was what they passed. This is the different story.

Let me take to the another part of it.

Love is the one feeling that nobody can predict, when it happens, can't even tell the reasons for that feeling. It just happens. It doesn't see the communities, race or regions. May be this was the reason behind those unsuccessful stories as each region doesn't accept the others' customs, even we call India as a Unity in Diversity of people. But if they accept, we can see the new India, Unity in diversity of Love.

More successful stories will bring all the communities/races gathered in each and every regions. So there won't be no concept of Caste. I think after a few years, we can see Caste-Free India.

This is what I want to share to you.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

My Wish

READY... SCROLL... ACTION......

A man is walking on the road... The kids are playing near by road. Unfortunately, the man has got injured by keeping leg on the slippery road.. Even no one aware of that. But one kid in the troop, saw this incident and opened his bag. He had a big watch, which can reverse the time to some extent. He reverted the clock hands to 10 min back, where the man was walking normally before. And while he almost reached to the slippery road, he cautioned him to go in another way.

Later he moved to his school. Still the lunch hour left for the kids playing, all the pupils are on the play ground. Suddenly, a boy fell down while playing on the ground. He has a big wound on his right leg. He just started crying aloud. The incident has glanced by the kid who is having the watch. He took back again the clock and reversed the time to where the kid was playing happily.

xxxx......CUT....xxxxxx......PACK UP.....xxxxxx

The shoot has been over. It is an easy thing to revert the time in a camera. but in life, it NEVER.

The kid played in the shoot, who is having the watch, is the same kid who lost his parents one year back. As a volunteer for an NGO, I met him in an orphanage. when I asked him his wish, he said, I want to revert the time before where my parents meet with an accident. I want to revert back the time and I need my parents back. I just fell down. How can I answer for his question?

Even god also doesn't give an answer for that.

This is what all can I do.

Sunday, June 23, 2013

"Four - 4"

I believe, the number four has so much relation with our life. May be we never came to notice but see my perceptions.

Birth - The New born always fill a happy moments in every family. The first touch is the best thing in this world. The father and mother touch fills more happiness for the baby, he starts the smile. The first two hands of each have so much power. The two + two = four has its essence now. And while learning the first steps, the four walks set you straight to walk you on.

Adolescent  - There is every need of friend in every step of your life. There is an old saying, try to make at least four friends, which hold you in future.

Marriage - The best part of the human life is after marriage. We have an option to choose our soul-mate to walk with us. They love each other, they born for each other to lead the best part of their life to show the world they are made for each other. The two steps followed on the same foot prints by the other two makes their bond stronger than any other.

Death - Nothing will comes with us after our death. But we left some of our goodness in others life. That is the only thing we keep our remembrance. That is the only thing makes to hold you on four sides of your death bed and give you a send off.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

It's my son's love story - Pati


I am 80. I am seeing a blur image of my son who is moving around here and there for searching medicines. It is the time to gulp it. At last he find it. He help me to take the today's dose and give a hand to leave some water into my throat. Later he go out.

I lay down on the bed. Start to remind those days of my son.


It is some where 1980's...

Our Home town is in Vellore, a border for the Chittor district. He come to the town as a teacher in a government school. I think he is around 26. The figure looks like as fierce in his eyes and long mustache as added attribute for his looks. The kids have a little fear to be in his class. Even, my daughter also studying in the same school. But I don't remember when he see my daughter and fall in love with her.

It is a mid-summer. On one day morning, even the dawn is not down, he come and stand with folded hands before me. I haven't seen the fear in his eyes, those are very sharp and spell a few words. As his eyes, the words are also very sharp.

He revealed a news that burst like a balloon. In his words "I am Kumar, working as a teacher in the school. I want to marry your daughter. I don't know how rich you are, I don't care about the caste. Just I want to marry your daughter".

For his blood, it is a nasty thing, but being in a reputable position, I can't stand on it. The anger reached my head. I threaten him with the words and try to send back him to home. But he didn't move not an inch. OK. "Bring your parents, we will talk. You are not the right one to talk in these matters." We cant do much than that. Finally he moved for these words.

The next day same morning, a 40 year man inquired me in front of my house. And said "I am Kumar's father". He disclosed about his appearance here and came to talk about his son's proposal. I just even never think of it. My daughter is about 20. I am shivering how I need to respond to him. I asked him some time for thinking. He went back.

At that time, my cousin's inquired and said it is the best match, we can't even get that match if we search from our side. With the help of them, I grant their marriage and the son-in-law be a part of my family.

In the life's cross ways, I stood single. At that time, my son-in-law stood back of me and still he is taking care of me. I don't want him to call as a son-in-law, he is my SON. Yes, he is my son only.
  


Friday, May 24, 2013

The Rich Guy's heart


"Is it my mistake to be born as a Rich? Why they cant see me as a normal man. Whenever I tries to be as normal, they are reminding me as a rich and put aside".

This is the grief a rich guy shared.

I can explain my feelings with one more incident. I tried to hang up with all the friends. I know that I have a group that all were from different classes of mid rich and medium. But my intention was to spend some time with them. Money was not at all concern for this. But I tried to arrange the party. I looked after everything. Even I served the drinks to my friends. But I never feel ashamed, before all, they are my friends. The party was over. Everybody was in super state. They are happy. And in turn, I am happy. But I heard what the words I never wants to hear. They mumbled these things after the party.
              "He is the rich guy. He can these parties in numbers of 100. It is not his money". This one word collapsed me. Was it my mistake to be born as a Rich? Can't I eligible to show the love on my friends.

But after all, they are my friends. I never want them down when I am here.

I have seen the guys who become friends with some wants. I can easily find them. I tried to avoid them as much I can. But they gossip as "That rich guy has a pride". I don't understand this world and people in this society.

Being a rich is my fault or giving this functions in brain is His fault. 

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

What is the connection between the 'Heart' and 'Brain'?


There is a huge conversation on Love between the two friends.

One friend ask like this. What is the connection between the 'Heart' and 'Brain'? Does the heart have any feelings? In my opinion, Heart is a dumb machine which roars with the two sounds Lub-Dub. But I still donno how this dumb machine became an important thing in the every aspects of love for writers.

Then after a long thought he continued like this....

While creating the man, God has posing attributes to each part of the body. And he is connecting every part to come under the brain control. But he waited while adding the attributes to the Heart. He has given some special qualities for the heart. "The only function which cannot control by the brain all the times". But the other parts should function under the commands of brain. Like, in coma, some of the parts may wont receive the commands from the brain. And it not all function. But Heart never comes under the brain.
                  Even the heart attack is due to blocking the blood vessels but not due to brain. It's all indirect way.

Then what is the reason for appending the Love to heart?

Hmmm.... okie. Let assume, you are walking alone in the midnight and all of sudden, some one hold you back. You just stuck. Then what are the changes you observe in your body? The sweating comes on my body, the heart beat rate increase than normal. Okie. Suppose, when your lover give a hand to you. And you are in huge pain. Then what is your reaction? Yeah. The eyes fill with tears. The heart functioning is almost negligible to me. 

So, in every happy or pain, who comes in the scene, the "Heart". Even though the feelings are created in the brain, the reaction happens in the Heart.

So, whom I have to consider Hero for the drama. Obviously it is "Heart". The feelings are created in the brain, but the heart takes away the prestige.

Sunday, April 7, 2013

In The ‘Dark’ Memory of………….


“It was noon 1:40…….
I can feel the hotness on my body…..
I was walking in the Madras War Cemetery by playing around the memories in my mind.......”



        I can sense the lined up graves in front of me. Each of it engraved with the names of soldiers who died in the World War II. I was finding the way to see your name on the plaques. I didn’t find. Also, my eyes didn’t help to find your name too.
       But, I just stopped unintentionally when my heart caught the name of yours. I came close to you. My hand touched the corners of the plaque and just lining the carved name.
       The two drops of tears rolled down on the ground. I can feel your image was before me. I was rewinding the words carefully that we shared before going to say bye to each other, now, they only left with me.

The days gone back to.......

       That was your first visit to the home in the good year. You came to the home after you completed the days in the military base. I am the one who was not on the ground that day when I heard the news. I arranged all the dishes of your favourites. I was waiting with my open heart.
       The pleasant seconds were on my side now. I hugged you after so many days and kissed on your cheek ignoring the wound that caused in reaching you at the gate.
       The days passed and blossomed like a first flower in the spring. We spent, we loved, we cared, we laughed... everything went boomed until I see the attending letter for the war.
       My heart cried than never before. But, I sent you with a smile hoping you will return soon. It’s a responsibility of every women who living on this ground.

After some more days.....

       I was hearing the voices on AIR. Every time, I was praying to the God, that I should not hear any bad news about you.
       But that awkward moment knocked the door and gone. I was not in consciousness to think or when it happened, that you were no more.
       Today, I left in grieve with your remembrance.

“Really, you left me in darkness besides my BLINDNESS…..
He collapsed all wishes that I could feel you forever on my side,
I cursed Him for the first time for making me BLIND”.